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Postby GOA MASTER MDMA » Thu, 28 Jan 2010 15:45

hey specialist- be a fighter and don´t stopp to play here only because you loose with a walkover . learn from this and go stronger in your next tournament.
you too good to play only WT !!

think about that :!: :!: :!:
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Postby djarvik » Thu, 28 Jan 2010 16:09

TheSPECIALIST09 wrote:Listen I'm really not bothered anymore. It's trivial I just won't compete it's been good, until this point. I may or may not be back. Djarvic got the walk however unjust I wish him luck. My son was Ill he's priority I'm afraid. It was how djarvic handled it saying he waited an hr when this was falsified, fabricated. and that's the truth. he gave me a window to play 00:30. To 05:30 I was on from 01:08 until 04:00 he knew I was on from 01:34. Djarvic if I said 01:30 would you have still watched American idle. It's all good mate finished, your through. Your tactic worked well done and good luck.


Stop saying its only 30 minutes...or you will soon start believing it. It's 1 hour. ....

Man, I really don't care when come home or when you brush your teeth or when you take a dump. But I do care when you actually show up for a made up time.

I have PMed you 2 days ago, making an EXACT appointment at 00:30 and also told you there is a possibility I can try and leave work earlier to save you time. After you committed to that time, I made plans for the rest of the evening. Just because I give you a time window to chose the most suitable time, doesn't mean I am obligated to sit there for the whole duration of that time window.

Personally, If I am late, a lot, I automatically asume the responsibility and asume my opponent moved on with the rest of the day/evening...so I will say to him something like that: "hey man, sorry for making you wait, my bad...some stuff came up. Would it still be possible to squzee the match tonight?"

....and what did you do? ...even if it is just half hour in your mind. Jumped all over me with accusations: WO hunter! Fear! Unsportsmanlike! and a few others....you go on forum post this crap too.

Where is that sense of entitlement coming from? ..do I owe you in some weird mental way? Am I to feel obligated to oblige you? WTF?!

You were wrong to do what you did, completely and utterly wrong.

Hope you will understand it for your sake.


TAKE F*** RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS.


Moving on, to my next victim... Let's squeeze a WO out of that one .... He is so scary! Geeeez man, really? :roll:

Get over it.
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Postby Rob ITST » Thu, 28 Jan 2010 18:26

I REALLY don't appreciate this "Equities was right/it was unfair" crap, and there was no need to bring this to the forum. I explained to you why I agreed with the decision, but I'll say it again here:

Djarvik played his previous round on Thursday. So, when you played your match on Friday, you knew who your next opponent was going to be. You said yourself that you could play only on the weekend or Monday, but you waited until Sunday to send a PM.

Djarvik could not play at the times you gave, so Cro allowed you to play Wednesday, after the deadline. You set an exact time for Wednesday. 30 minutes after the arranged time, Djarvik sent you a message saying, "Man, I cannot wait longer....it will have to be later...got to go out now...I'll look for you when I am back...going to get food."

30 minutes later, which was then 1 hour after the time you agreed on, you showed up. But rather than saying, "sorry I was late, can we play later?", you start accusing him of being scared, trying to get the walkover, and showing bad sportsmanship.

On top of all that, Cro told you he would let you keep your points for the tournament.

Sorry, but you're being unreasonable here.

So take a couple of days to cool off, and then message me about all your other matches and if you intend to play them.
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