first of all plz excuse my really bad english!!!

ok,it happened already many times now that i was getting angry after losing matches vs people from other continents like australia, south- and north america and so on because of bad connection and much delay. By the way people who are playing with lag and delay every match are used to it and having a very big advantage because of that!!! honestly playing with lag and delay i m really not be able to play comparable tennis as i usually do with a normal or good connection and i think many players here at itst have same problems!!!???
if i just play matches vs player from out of europe to practice and to increase my performance it wouldnt be that angry if i lose because of delay and lag but now i ll ask you:
what happens if i or somebody else will lose a tourney match just because of this very bad connection??? i m not sure if u were talking about this subject here already but i think its necessary to find a solution for this.
it wouldnt be really fair to lose a match just because of a extremely laggy connection although you are the better player!!! am i right???
so plz can u tell me how the procedere is in that cases???
or is it maybe possible to seperate theese players from other continents in a fair way or is there maybe a tecnical solution we could try to fix the connection???
to all itst players now: plz tell me about your experiences with that subject/problem!!! i really like to know how u think about this!!!
best regards
MAD MARTIN